Friday, November 13, 2009

Players In The Sugar Daddy Game......

Hello again, Babies!

I apologize for the slight delay since my last post, but you’ll be happy to know that I’ve been hard at work for you! In my experience of being a Sugar Baby, mentoring others, and especially reading many of my recent emails seeking advice, I am both amazed and saddened by the number of Babies out there struggling to find the right Daddy simply because they don’t know how to play ‘the game.’ As a result, they experience false expectations, frequent miscommunications, and inevitable let downs. Well, rest easy, Babies because I’m here to lay it all out to take the guessing and wondering out of it!

Sugar Daddy Types

The Target: Married SD

Profile: Married (OBVIOUSLY!!) with the possibility of kids, but still needing that special someone to take care of, help them feel young again, or perhaps do things the Mrs. won’t…

The Game: Discretion is mandatory in everything you do – the times you call, the interactions you have, even the perfume you wear so as not to set off any red flags to the Mrs. Perfect for the Baby looking for minimal interactions with little or no strings attached, and obviously a risk taker. Jealousy is NOT an option!

The Bait: Gold Digger SB -or- Business SB -or- SB with Boyfriend

The Target: Lonely/Needy SD

Profile: Living a majority of their life alone or in-and-out of relationships, he seeks for that special someone to share his successes and fortunes with – to make his happiness complete.

The Game: Exert caution in this one if you’re not looking for anything serious or long term. You can lavish it up freely while he spoils you with anything you desire, but be careful not to give too much too soon so as to avoid him becoming too clingy right away. You have control as you take the driver seat here, but you MUST communicate your expectations up front. Make him work a little for it, and you’ll find your “Happily Ever After!”

The Bait: Seeking Marriage SB

The Target: The Bling SD

Profile: As the title implies, he has money and likes to show it, not only on himself but his Baby as well - cars, clothes, jewelry, and everything in between! Materialistic, fashionable, and status are large pillars in his foundation

The Game: Beauty is often a very high pre-requisite in this SD type – and why wouldn’t it? He likes to look good, so he’ll expect and need his Baby to look good, and make him look better as a result. So, you’ll need to look your best at all times, talk the talk, but more importantly – walk that walk!

The Bait: Gold Digger SB -or- Business SB -or- Innocent/Naïve SB

The Target: Business SD

Profile: Driven by success, he looks for the one to make him more successful. He is mature, focused, and established, but still likes his fun – otherwise he wouldn’t have you! Expect fancy suits, company dinners, and proper etiquette when necessary.

The Game: He has no time to waste in meaningless interactions – professional or personal, so you had better come prepared. He tends to want someone educated, goal-oriented, and proper at the proper time; someone he can be proud of. Others prefer the more easily manipulated to keep the control on their side. It is important to determine which one he is early in the game, and adjust accordingly.

The Bait: Business SB -or- Innocent/Naïve SB

The Target: Sexual SD

Profile: Success and sex – often times two words separated only by a syllable. Sometimes seeking multiple Babies to ‘spoil,’ he is exuberant, charismatic, and exhibits the most typical of Alpha-male characteristics.

The Game: Think of this like the tango – the man constantly trying to exert his dominance over the woman while she skillfully eludes his advances. You will, however, be expected to give him a taste for his efforts and ‘provisions’ from time to time. Exert caution here too, however, so as not to let this situation become harmful or unhealthy.

The Bait: Severely depends on your personality type – NOT your SB type, but Innocent/Naïve SBs beware…

Sugar Baby Types

The Title: Innocent/Naïve SB

Profile: Playing the good girl, the untouched, and the pure in need of guidance for a little spoiling. Some Babies fall into this category simply due to a lack of experience or uncertainty of what they want or how to get it. Nonetheless, they still achieve the same resulting characteristics: easy going, easily manipulated, but highly sought after by many a Sugar Daddy.

The Title: Gold Digger SB

Profile: To this Baby there is no such thing as too much or too spoiled. Name brands, big tastes, and big price tags are not only wanted, but expected – and why not? Don’t you deserve it? However, everything must be done in moderation and self-restraint is important. Expect or demand too much, and you may give your Daddy a drought in his wallet.

The Title: Seeking Marriage SB

Profile: Not looking for a casual date or fling, this Baby wants a meaningful and committed relationship. Wanting security and knowing you’ll be well taken care of for the rest of your life is like the warm blanket you’ve always wanted to keep you warm. This will only work if you truly seek love and companionship, and those feelings must be shared mutually.

The Title: Business SB

Profile: Ambitious and goal-oriented, this Baby has plans of her own. She sees opportunity not only in the Daddy himself, but those he surrounds himself with in order to network, excel, and advance her own desires.

The Title: SB with Boyfriend

Profile: Already in a relationship, this Baby seeks a Daddy to provide sugar for that sweet tooth. Mainly seeking tangible items – money, clothing, jewelry, etc. that the boyfriend cannot provide. Let it be said, however, that if you play with fire you may burn your sugar.

I hope you find this helpful, and I know if you give it a shot you’ll be amazed at what you find about yourself, and your Daddy. I can’t wait to hear what kind of Sugar Baby you are, the kind of Daddy(s) you’ve had luck with – good or bad, and the kind you hope to find!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Why would someone choose to become a Sugar Baby?

Good morning, Babies!

Is it all about the money, travel and gifts? Or can it be that young and attractive individuals choose the sugar baby lifestyle because they understand the concept of ‘impermanence?’ Many Sugar Babies understand that their physical beauty will diminish overtime, which may be why they choose to live every fleeting moment to the fullest.

Let me tell you my story. I started my own company three years ago providing advice to individuals in need of nutritional guidance, yes I’m a Nutritionist. It was extremely difficult to get funding from banks or investors. After several months with still no funding, my business partner came across a sugar daddy site; we were instantly hooked on the concept of a “mentor” for the exchange of eye candy. We felt even if we didn’t get funding from our “mentor,” we would still be surrounded by successful business people, and something would come through one way or another.

So, after a few weeks I received my first offer, and yes, he was interested in our company, very interested - to the point of helping us out on a monthly ‘allowance.’ After a few months of hard work and a little ‘dressing up,’ we were able to see our dreams become a realization. Our lifestyle became something of a dream world – jewelry, clothing, fancy dinners, and that was just the beginning…

So, what Sugar Baby lifestyle will you pursue? One of extravagance and glamour? One of subtleties and secrets? Will you have multiple “mentors,” or search for your own happy ending of love and wealth? The possibilities are endless and I encourage you to tell me yours…