Friday, November 13, 2009

Players In The Sugar Daddy Game......

Hello again, Babies!

I apologize for the slight delay since my last post, but you’ll be happy to know that I’ve been hard at work for you! In my experience of being a Sugar Baby, mentoring others, and especially reading many of my recent emails seeking advice, I am both amazed and saddened by the number of Babies out there struggling to find the right Daddy simply because they don’t know how to play ‘the game.’ As a result, they experience false expectations, frequent miscommunications, and inevitable let downs. Well, rest easy, Babies because I’m here to lay it all out to take the guessing and wondering out of it!

Sugar Daddy Types

The Target: Married SD

Profile: Married (OBVIOUSLY!!) with the possibility of kids, but still needing that special someone to take care of, help them feel young again, or perhaps do things the Mrs. won’t…

The Game: Discretion is mandatory in everything you do – the times you call, the interactions you have, even the perfume you wear so as not to set off any red flags to the Mrs. Perfect for the Baby looking for minimal interactions with little or no strings attached, and obviously a risk taker. Jealousy is NOT an option!

The Bait: Gold Digger SB -or- Business SB -or- SB with Boyfriend


The Target: Lonely/Needy SD

Profile: Living a majority of their life alone or in-and-out of relationships, he seeks for that special someone to share his successes and fortunes with – to make his happiness complete.

The Game: Exert caution in this one if you’re not looking for anything serious or long term. You can lavish it up freely while he spoils you with anything you desire, but be careful not to give too much too soon so as to avoid him becoming too clingy right away. You have control as you take the driver seat here, but you MUST communicate your expectations up front. Make him work a little for it, and you’ll find your “Happily Ever After!”

The Bait: Seeking Marriage SB


The Target: The Bling SD

Profile: As the title implies, he has money and likes to show it, not only on himself but his Baby as well - cars, clothes, jewelry, and everything in between! Materialistic, fashionable, and status are large pillars in his foundation

The Game: Beauty is often a very high pre-requisite in this SD type – and why wouldn’t it? He likes to look good, so he’ll expect and need his Baby to look good, and make him look better as a result. So, you’ll need to look your best at all times, talk the talk, but more importantly – walk that walk!

The Bait: Gold Digger SB -or- Business SB -or- Innocent/Naïve SB


The Target: Business SD

Profile: Driven by success, he looks for the one to make him more successful. He is mature, focused, and established, but still likes his fun – otherwise he wouldn’t have you! Expect fancy suits, company dinners, and proper etiquette when necessary.

The Game: He has no time to waste in meaningless interactions – professional or personal, so you had better come prepared. He tends to want someone educated, goal-oriented, and proper at the proper time; someone he can be proud of. Others prefer the more easily manipulated to keep the control on their side. It is important to determine which one he is early in the game, and adjust accordingly.

The Bait: Business SB -or- Innocent/Naïve SB


The Target: Sexual SD

Profile: Success and sex – often times two words separated only by a syllable. Sometimes seeking multiple Babies to ‘spoil,’ he is exuberant, charismatic, and exhibits the most typical of Alpha-male characteristics.

The Game: Think of this like the tango – the man constantly trying to exert his dominance over the woman while she skillfully eludes his advances. You will, however, be expected to give him a taste for his efforts and ‘provisions’ from time to time. Exert caution here too, however, so as not to let this situation become harmful or unhealthy.

The Bait: Severely depends on your personality type – NOT your SB type, but Innocent/Naïve SBs beware…

Sugar Baby Types

The Title: Innocent/Naïve SB

Profile: Playing the good girl, the untouched, and the pure in need of guidance for a little spoiling. Some Babies fall into this category simply due to a lack of experience or uncertainty of what they want or how to get it. Nonetheless, they still achieve the same resulting characteristics: easy going, easily manipulated, but highly sought after by many a Sugar Daddy.


The Title: Gold Digger SB

Profile: To this Baby there is no such thing as too much or too spoiled. Name brands, big tastes, and big price tags are not only wanted, but expected – and why not? Don’t you deserve it? However, everything must be done in moderation and self-restraint is important. Expect or demand too much, and you may give your Daddy a drought in his wallet.


The Title: Seeking Marriage SB

Profile: Not looking for a casual date or fling, this Baby wants a meaningful and committed relationship. Wanting security and knowing you’ll be well taken care of for the rest of your life is like the warm blanket you’ve always wanted to keep you warm. This will only work if you truly seek love and companionship, and those feelings must be shared mutually.


The Title: Business SB

Profile: Ambitious and goal-oriented, this Baby has plans of her own. She sees opportunity not only in the Daddy himself, but those he surrounds himself with in order to network, excel, and advance her own desires.


The Title: SB with Boyfriend

Profile: Already in a relationship, this Baby seeks a Daddy to provide sugar for that sweet tooth. Mainly seeking tangible items – money, clothing, jewelry, etc. that the boyfriend cannot provide. Let it be said, however, that if you play with fire you may burn your sugar.


I hope you find this helpful, and I know if you give it a shot you’ll be amazed at what you find about yourself, and your Daddy. I can’t wait to hear what kind of Sugar Baby you are, the kind of Daddy(s) you’ve had luck with – good or bad, and the kind you hope to find!

16 comments:

  1. I enjoyed reading this! Although it seems like all the men have a little "Sexual SD" in them. (And a little may be an understatement!) <3

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    1. wow ,this is a great article !
      I am a girl now i'm seeking a rich man who can give me real love , so i got a username
      blackjackdp on --sugarbabymatch ℃○M~--- .it is the first and best club for sugar daddy and sugar baby ,
      @@@@@-it gives you a chance to make your life better and open opportunities for you to meet the attractive real sugar daddy and treat you like a queen. i love that !

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  2. This post is right on point. I agree with Jessi, they all have that "sexual SD" somewhere inside but I guess all of us have a bit of "golddigger SB" inside too. lol

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  3. Very good post. I found a perfect example of what could go wrong if you don't play the game right at http://sugar-baby-daddy-talk.blogspot.com/. This is mind boggling to read how this Sugar couple texted each other back and forth when the sugar baby's microphone on her new phone stopped working. I can't wait for more posts on that site lol.

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  4. Hmm, as a married former SD, i don't quite follow the 'bait' section for the Married SD's.
    Don't go for the gold digger, for sure.
    How about another category: 'Bait = classy, discreet SB, who knows how to handle herself'. Yup, that will do it.

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  5. wow ,this is a great article !
    I am a single millionaire now I am seeking a young girl who can give me real love , so i got a username blackjackdp on sugarbabymatch ℃○M~--- .it is the first and best club for sugar daddy and sugar baby ,@@@@@-it gives you a chance to make your life better and open opportunities for you to meet the attractive real sugar daddy and treat you like a queen. i love that !

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    1. I'm also on that site sweetarby but its hard to find SD on it. I would love to connect with you.

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  6. You know the hottest free dating site .... Sugardaddyhunt.C0M ... search your friends and recapture some of your youth and try striking up a relationship, whether romantic or flirtation,just friendship and fun, with some funny ones!

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  7. You know the hottest free dating site .... Sugardaddyhunt.C0M ... search your friends and recapture some of your youth and try striking up a relationship, whether romantic or flirtation,just friendship and fun, with some funny ones!

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  8. I am in a SD relationship and it's great, except he is like 40 yrs older than me and therefore sex is always such a drag for me. I have had relationships on the side (unknown to him) and still looking. He can be tight fisted with his money and I am trying to figure out how to get more if he wants me to be committed. I am so confused. Should I be committed if he gives more? Or should I have my side relationships even if he gives more? I am sure he has other women aside from his wife so I don't feel badly. He is Jewish, and so am I and I know how these men can be. How do I get more support from him?
    I am so glad you have this forum.

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  9. My Daddy is "Married, Sexual, and Business" SD.... Lolz

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  10. I have a question for the women. Could you please explain how I can avoid becoming the one always coming to HER in need of companionship, attention and sex? I would much rather be in control of the situation and have her come to me OFFERING companionship, attention and sex in return for her financial needs. Thanks!

    JB

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  11. I want to start my search.I just need a mentor how can I reach you.

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